Pay attention to the zeros and ones in your personal interactions. We are all a bunch of ones and zeroes - on/off, open/closed, connection/disconnection. And our behavior can foster either reaction from those we are in relationship with. So start noticing your's and other's reactions during your daily interchanges. What turns people on and what turns them off? As Brene Brown so rightly reminds us, "We are hardwired for connection." So pay attention! Pick up on subtle, or not so subtle, shifts in tone, body language and facial expressions. Really listen to what's being said.Register the response you are receiving prior to continuing an action and react according to the message your are being sent. One of the best ways to get desired results from your interpersonal exchanges is to think: connection? disconnection? And notice what causes what.