We make stuff up. Our brains are hard wired to do so. We fill in the spaces and the holes of stories to make them make sense, to fit in with what we believe is true, to coincide with our perception of what's happening and our memories of history. Often this serves us, and sometimes it doesn't.
When we are feeling stuck in our relationships, or on our path in life, this trait is not serving us because we have lost sight of our imagination in the process of discerning reality. We have failed to notice how much stuff we are making up, and that it's in our power to make up better stuff. Stuff that's more fun, more exciting, more expansive and more enjoyable. We are the makers up of stuff, and it's up to us to make it good.
So, let your imaginations soar. Remove the chains and allow your imaginations to run free.